Graydon Carter's Controversial Views on the Oscars and Meghan Markle

Graydon Carter, the former editor of Vanity Fair, has never been shy about sharing his opinions, especially regarding the Oscars and Meghan Markle. In his new memoir, "When the Going was Good," Carter recalls the struggles he faced during his early years at the magazine, which he assumed control of in July 1992, after founding the satirical magazine Spy.

Carter's Early Years at Vanity Fair

Carter reflects on the toxic work environment when he took over, describing it as "dreadful." The loyalty some staff members had to previous editor-in-chief Tina Brown made it challenging for him to establish his own vision for Vanity Fair. However, he decided to make a significant impact by launching the magazine's renowned Oscars party in 1994 after the death of celebrated Hollywood agent Swifty Lazar.

The Evolution of the Oscars Party

Initially a modest gathering of about 150 guests, the party quickly transformed into a must-attend event for Hollywood elites. Carter explains that networking overshadowed the desire to dance, as industry professionals sought to make connections that could lead to new projects. The event has a notorious reputation, where guest list management became a chaotic affair with rampant bribery and attempted manipulation.

Notorious Incidents and Attendance Regulations

The first Oscars party was a runaway success, leading to debauchery and a few infamous incidents, including a man disguised in a tuxedo with a pig, claiming it was the famous "Babe." Despite its glamorous facade, Carter had strict rules about who could attend, even going so far as to ban Harvey Weinstein for his rude behavior towards staff.

Carter's Changing Perspective on the Oscars

Reflecting on the Oscars, Carter admitted that he wouldn’t be directing a party for that event if he were still at the helm. Instead, he would consider hosting an Emmys party, given that television content has become overwhelmingly significant over the past few years. “I haven’t watched the Oscars in seven years,” he revealed.

Carter's Encounter with Meghan Markle

Among his notable encounters was working with Meghan Markle, who appeared on a Vanity Fair cover in 2017. Carter humorously remembers the moment when Markle said, “Excuse me, is this going to be all about Prince Harry?” He described her as "adrift on reality," suggesting that she may have been oblivious to the media dynamics concerning her royal engagement.

Carter's Connection with the Royal Family

Carter’s relationship with the royal family runs deep; he was friendly with the late Princess Diana and recalls her curiosity about Jackie Kennedy's experiences with the Kennedy family. He speculates that Diana would feel sorrow for her son, Harry, as he navigates his current estrangement from the royal family, especially regarding his relationship with his brother and father.

Reflections and Advice from Carter's Memoir

In the midst of nostalgic banter, Carter also reflects on other magazine milestones, including the iconic cover that introduced baby Suri Cruise, leading to a curious exchange with Tom Cruise, who sent Carter a unique Christmas gift with Scientology tenets.

Carter's memoir wraps up with timeless advice, encouraging readers to remain open to new endeavors and to plan their exits strategically in any venture. While he may have moved on from his influential role at Vanity Fair, Graydon Carter's legacy in the entertainment industry and his insights into it are far from over. "Put yourself in the movie," he muses, "and ask yourself: Are you the hero, the villain, or someone in between?"

Carter's Perspective on Fame

With the Hollywood landscape constantly evolving, it’s clear Carter continues to have a unique perspective on the glitz and complexities of fame.