Introduction

In an emotional new video titled “Hiking,” Yulhee, former member of the popular girl group LABOUM, has made her first public appearance since the controversy surrounding her ex-husband, Minhwan of F.T. Island. Released on November 10, the video offers a glimpse into her thoughts and feelings in the wake of this difficult period.

Self-Reflection and Healing

During her hike, Yulhee acknowledged the significance of the moment, stating, “I needed this time. Honestly, taking the subway or bus felt awkward. I spent time at home, focusing on myself. After reading so many books indoors, I felt I needed some sunlight. I think it was a good decision to come out.” This statement reflects her need for self-reflection and healing after a tumultuous year.

Public Assumptions and Motherhood

Yulhee opened up about the psychological toll of public assumptions regarding her personal life, sharing, “Over the past year, I let a lot slip by. I think I was trying to erase my past self because of painful memories, hoping that if I erased them, I wouldn’t get hurt again.” She expressed concerns that these assumptions had hindered her ability to be a present mother, saying, “While I want to live my life, I also don’t want to lose my role as a mother to my kids. My love for them hasn’t changed. I’m working hard and moving forward so I can spend more time with my children.”

Feelings of Abandonment

With a heavy heart, Yulhee reflected on the feelings of abandonment her children might have due to her situation. “I don’t think I abandoned my kids, but do they feel that way? Maybe I was too narrow-minded to let things go,” she pondered. Despite facing overwhelming scrutiny, she firmly stated, “I don’t regret the divorce. I want to live happily without losing my place as their mother.” This determination to maintain her parental role amidst personal turmoil underscores her commitment to her children’s well-being.

Ongoing Challenges

After the breakdown of her marriage with Minhwan, which was marked by accusations of harassment and infidelity, Yulhee’s longing to restore her life has been met with immense challenges. Minwhan, who announced a pending departure from F.T. Island and stepped back from his work on the KBS2 show "The Return of Superman," currently has custody of their children. Yulhee has made it clear she intends to contest this custody arrangement and seek a division of their assets, signifying her desire to be a central figure in her children’s lives.

Community Support

Yulhee’s openness about her struggles has resonated with many, as she revealed receiving messages from others who have faced similar challenges. “I felt a clear sense of the path I need to take as a mother,” she said, finding courage in the solidarity she discovered through shared experiences with her supporters.

Conclusion

As Yulhee continues on her journey, her story serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities of motherhood, personal sacrifice, and the fight for a brighter future amidst adversity. What lies ahead for Yulhee and her family remains uncertain, but her resolve to rebuild her life and maintain her role as a devoted mother stands as a beacon of hope in this turbulent chapter.