Martial arts icon Jet Li has stepped back from the limelight, focusing on spirituality over stardom. At 61, the legendary actor has embraced Tibetan Buddhism since 1998, profoundly transforming his outlook on life and death.

A Bold Stance on Grief

In a recent interview, Li revealed a shocking truth—he chooses not to attend funerals, even for his closest friends and family. He candidly stated, Some say I am heartless or cold-blooded, but I say, ‘Who hasn’t faced loss?’ This perspective inevitably raises eyebrows. How can someone so beloved resist expressing grief?

Challenging Societal Norms

Jet attributes his views to a distorted societal perception of death, often exaggerated by films and television. People melodramatize scenes like: ‘Oh no, you died before I could see you one last time!’ He believes that such portrayals can lead to a version of grief that keeps individuals locked in a cycle of sorrow.

A Personal Journey

Indeed, there’s a deeper story behind Jet's beliefs. His youngest daughter, Jada, now 22, battled depression and suicidal thoughts when she was just 19. Her recovery has sparked profound discussions between them, addressing life, death, and even the sensitive topic of inheritance.

A Message of Openness

Jet emphasizes honesty in these discussions: We were very open with each other. It’s essential to talk about what’s on your mind to avoid regret later. For Li, accepting death is integral to living fully.

Living with Purpose

As he succinctly puts it, Death is part of the deal from the moment we are born. Instead of mourning, Jet Li encourages embracing life, advocating for discussions that many shy away from. His journey not only reflects personal healing but serves as a compelling reminder of how we can choose to approach life and loss.