SINGAPORE: A recent revelation by a Singaporean man has sent shockwaves through social media after he disclosed that his relatives are implementing an "entrance fee" for guests visiting their home during festive occasions like Chinese New Year and Christmas.

In a post shared on Reddit's 'Singapore Raw' forum, the man expressed his disbelief at this practice, questioning whether it signifies a new cultural trend in Singapore. Unlike his own family, which has been known to hold festive gatherings without such charges, his relatives have taken a drastically different approach.

"We believe these events are about socializing and companionship rather than making a profit. Charging an entrance fee never crossed our minds," he explained, contrasting his family's hospitality with the transactional atmosphere created by his relatives. In their case, despite the meal's availability, visitors are expected to cough up the $28 charge just for stepping through the door.

"It felt more like a business transaction than a warm welcome," the poster noted. "Their message was clear: 'We're happy to host, but it will cost you $28 per person!'"

This unusual request left many Reddit users astonished, with some claiming it was their first encounter with the concept of an entrance fee at someone's home. A user humorously mused, "Is there an extra charge for using the restroom? What’s next, a fine print?" Another joked, "If you visit often, better buy the annual pass!"

As the discussion unfolded, some users speculated whether the relatives were attempting to deter guests from visiting altogether. One commenter suggested, "It seems like they want to avoid hosting but are too polite to say so directly. By charging, they ensure that only those willing to pay will show up."

In related news, a bridesmaid recently sparked another heated conversation online after revealing her frustration with a newly married couple who requested that all their wedding gifts be returned, including "gate crash" red packets, and insisted that bridesmaids cover their own dress costs. Her post on the 'Ask Singapore' forum highlighted the awkward situation, making it clear that this was her first experience as a bridesmaid and that she felt embarrassed having to remind guests to write their names on their gifts.

These peculiar social dynamics reflect shifting norms in Singapore’s celebratory culture, leaving many to wonder: Are we moving toward a future where paying to visit friends and family may become the norm?