Introduction

SINGAPORE – Renowned local actress Rebecca Lim is stepping into an exhilarating new chapter of her life as a working mother. After welcoming her first child—a beautiful baby boy—on January 30 with her husband Matthew Webster, a Singaporean of British-Chinese descent involved in corporate branding, the 38-year-old star is navigating the challenges and joys of motherhood alongside her career.

Returning to Work

Since her official return to the filming scene in July, Lim has been busy working on a new English drama. "Every day presents new adjustments," she shared with The Straits Times via email. "I’m relearning how to find joy in the little things and carving out a fresh perspective on life."

Support System

Lim credits her supportive family, including her mother and in-laws, for helping her manage her dual roles. She also appreciates the presence of a dedicated helper at home, which eases the transition into motherhood while juggling her career.

With Love, Becks

In addition to her acting, Lim hosts a variety show titled *With Love, Becks*, which airs its much-anticipated second season on Channel 8 starting November 18 at 8 PM, also available on mewatch. In this six-episode series, she embarks on engaging girl’s day outs with local personalities like MP Tin Pei Ling and actresses Fann Wong, Yvonne Lim, and Sheila Sim, who all share invaluable insights on balancing their careers with motherhood.

Candid Conversations

During a candid conversation with MP Tin, a mother of two young boys, Lim was struck by the politician's openness regarding her own struggles in merging work and family life. "I truly value Ms. Tin’s candor. Sharing such personal challenges is not easy, especially when one's life is under constant scrutiny,” Lim expressed, admiring Tin's bravery.

Shifting Priorities

When asked about her approach to her acting career now that she is a mother, Lim reflected on her previous thoughts about prioritization. "I used to wonder how others managed to step back from their careers, but now I get it—your priorities shift almost overnight."

Motherhood Journey

Despite being "extremely sleep-deprived," Lim describes herself as a devoted and active mother. Committing to early morning walks with her nine-month-old son, she expressed, “I don’t even enjoy the sun or outdoors, but I’ll do it for him.” Her hands-on approach includes bathing, diaper changes, meal preparation, feeding, and nighttime wake-ups to comfort her child.

Sisterly Support

Support from her younger sister, a dentist who gave birth just two weeks after Lim, has been crucial during this period. "We are each other’s emotional support," she noted, sharing how they navigate challenges like night feeds and breastfeeding troubles together. Lim's sister provides practical guidance during their parenting journey, especially concerning teething issues.

Privacy for Her Child

Interestingly, Lim opts to keep her son's identity private. "We treasure these moments between ourselves. Perhaps one day, when he’s older and can understand, I’ll let him decide if he wants to share his life with the public," she stated.

Lessons in Parenting

Reflecting on her experiences from *With Love, Becks*, Lim emphasized the importance of individuality in parenting. "Every child is unique, and I’ve learned not to compare. It’s easy to feel like we’re either not doing enough or that our child isn’t progressing quickly,” she said.

Cherishing Moments

Her most profound lesson? "Enjoy every moment because childhood is fleeting. They grow up too fast, and you never get those moments back."

Conclusion

As Rebecca Lim navigates her new life as a working mother, she epitomizes resilience and the pursuit of balance, inspiring many others to cherish their journeys, whatever they may entail.