Overview of Events

In a shocking revelation following the untimely death of actress Kim Sae Ron, her ex-boyfriend has stepped forward to clarify misconceptions surrounding her distress, firmly stating that popular actor Kim Soo Hyun is not associated with her death. He has placed the blame squarely on her alleged 'abusive' husband.

The Emotional Turmoil Leading Up to Her Passing

In the months leading to her tragic passing, the ex-boyfriend described Kim Sae Ron as being overwhelmed by emotional turmoil. He recounted how she felt trapped between their past romance and the turbulent marriage she entered in January in New York. After the wedding, Kim Sae Ron confided in him about the alleged emotional abuse inflicted by her husband, which included confiscating her phone, scrutinizing her messages, and subjecting her to verbal harassment.

Corroboration of Abuse Claims

This narrative of abuse was also corroborated by an audio recording shared by YouTuber Lee Jin Ho. Her ex-boyfriend shared a chilling text her husband sent on January 13, stating, 'You’re married now, so don’t contact anyone else. Clean up the mess you made. You disgusting idiot.'

Exacerbation of Emotional Suffering

The ex-boyfriend revealed that Kim Sae Ron's emotional suffering was exacerbated by her husband’s behavior. According to him, she attempted self-harm multiple times during this period, highlighting a deep-seated despair that was misrepresented by media outlets linking her struggles to a financial dispute with her former agency—co-owned by Kim Soo Hyun—amounting to ₩700 million ($522,000). He emphasized that this dispute was a procedural matter raised over a year prior, not an immediate crisis.

Harrowing Messages from Kim Sae Ron

In a harrowing message dated January 15, Kim Sae Ron expressed feelings of fear and regret, saying, 'I’m sorry. Just curse at me. Call me crazy; I keep getting hit and yelled at, but nothing changes. If only you could be happy, I wouldn’t ask for anything else, not even dreams.' She confessed to marrying her husband out of fear and conveyed feeling trapped in her situation.

The Timeline of Their Relationship

The timeline of their relationship revealed that Kim Sae Ron began seeing her husband in November. Initially seeking companionship due to loneliness, she soon found herself threatened and controlled, stating, 'He threatened to leak our chat history and photos, hacked my Instagram, hit me, and screamed at me. I was terrified.'

Family Abandonment and Lack of Support

Tragically, her family reportedly abandoned her in her time of need. After a self-harm incident in November, no family members visited her in the hospital, renewing calls for accountability and communication within her family. Her ex-boyfriend expressed dismay that, despite the gravity of her situation, her aunt, who became a spokesperson after her death, hinted at Kim Soo Hyun's involvement with her tragedy.

Critical Reflection on Family Dynamics

'How could her family not even know she got married? That alone shows how little communication there was,' he noted, adding, 'Now that she’s gone, bringing up her past with a celebrity feels like an attempt to push a certain narrative. Blaming Kim Soo Hyun just because he’s famous is incredibly unfair.'

Conclusion

This unfolding story raises critical questions about emotional abuse and the hidden struggles many face in silence. As friends and family rally for justice and awareness, the tragic loss of Kim Sae Ron resonates deeply, shining a light on the importance of mental health support and open communication within families.