
‘I Based My Self-Worth on Scales’: The Increasing Anorexia Crisis Among Men
2025-08-27
Author: Sarah
An Alarming Trend in Male Eating Disorders
For Dave Chawner, his struggle with anorexia began as a teenager, where weight loss initially earned him praise, pushing him into a cycle of obsessive self-weighing, calorie counting, and excessive exercise. "I started to put my self-worth in numbers on a scale. I valued myself on how little I consumed and how much I moved," reflected Chawner, now a comedian and advocate for mental health.
The Hidden Face of Anorexia
Chawner’s relationship with food toxicly developed around the age of 16, but it took him four years and a doctor’s visit for depression to get the diagnosis of anorexia. Today, he’s on the road to recovery, using humor as a powerful tool in his journey. His experience underscores a critical misconception: that eating disorders primarily affect women.
Rising Numbers: A Crisis Ignored
Recent statistics reveal a chilling 128% rise in hospital admissions for boys and men with eating disorders in the UK over the last five years. According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, eating disorders claim a life every 62 minutes in the US, with anorexia having a frightening mortality rate, especially in men, who face a higher risk and often suffer worse health outcomes.
Understanding the Male Experience
Men with anorexia face unique challenges, including societal pressures that portray eating disorders as ‘women’s issues.’ According to Tom Freeston from the eating disorder charity Beat, many men feel invisible and misdiagnosed, delaying help. A staggering 53% believe they can’t develop an eating disorder, and their struggles often go unheard.
Breaking the Stigma
This double stigma silences men further, complicating diagnosis and treatment. Research indicates that medical guidelines historically excluded male-specific symptoms, reinforcing the belief that eating disorders are exclusive to women.
The Need for Tailored Treatments
Experts argue for improved diagnostic tools and treatments tailored for men. Many feel alienated in female-centric treatment environments, which often overlook their specific motivations linked to leanness and muscularity.
A Journey to Recovery
Chawner initially resisted help until a nurse’s impactful words shifted his perspective: "You wouldn’t expect your laptop to work without charging it. Why expect your brain to function without feeding it?" After two and a half years of treatment, he feels significantly distanced from his disorder but acknowledges it remains part of his life.
A Call to Action
Experts stress the importance of early intervention, urging that eating disorders are serious but treatable. The sooner individuals seek help, the better their chances for a full recovery.
If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out to Beat, the UK's eating disorder charity, at 0808 801 0677 or visit beateatingdisorders.org.uk for support.