From Healing to Heartache: One Young Man's Battle

In a poignant reflection, Jude Solley, a brave 20-year-old from Seaford, reveals how his journey with cancer took a daunting turn, leading him to confront a devastating eating disorder. After undergoing treatment for leukaemia, Jude faced unexpected weight gain that plunged him into a 'dark place' during his recovery.

The Hidden Cost of Cancer Treatment

Initially misdiagnosed with glandular fever, Jude's life changed drastically when a blood test revealed he had leukaemia. He courageously battled through six months of chemotherapy, followed by three more years of treatment that included a course of steroids notorious for weight gain. This unexpected side effect took a toll on his mental health.

A Struggle with Self-Image

"Every time I looked in the mirror, it felt like I was staring at a stranger," Jude admitted. His battle became so overwhelming that he shunned leaving the house and dreaded even having his picture taken. The weight gain rose from treatment sidelined his identity, leading him to spiral into disordered eating.

Seeking Help is Key

Realizing he was losing weight at an alarming rate, Jude's plight became apparent to his medical team. Thanks to a referral from a Teenage Cancer Trust nurse, he began receiving much-needed psychological support. Jude emphasizes the importance of reaching out for help during such tumultuous times: "If things feel unbearable, don't hesitate to ask for help," he urged.

Mental Health: A Silent Struggle

A recent survey underscores Jude's experience, revealing that nearly 29% of young cancer patients under 25 feel they lack support for body image issues. Dr. Louise Soanes, chief nurse at Teenage Cancer Trust, highlighted that the emotional ramifications of appearance changes due to cancer are often brushed aside, leaving many young individuals without the help they desperately need.

Advocating for Change

Dr. Soanes calls for significant reforms in how support is provided to young cancer patients, especially regarding mental health. The charity emphasizes that psychological assistance should not be a luxury but a necessity, advocating that every young adult should have access to specialized mental health services from diagnosis through to two years post-treatment.

A Ray of Hope

Today, Jude Solley stands as a beacon of resilience, emerging from his struggles with renewed purpose. He passionately supports the Teenage Cancer Trust’s campaign, urging those facing similar battles to acknowledge their feelings and seek the necessary help. With a clearer perspective, he reassures fellow sufferers: "This difficult phase is temporary. You will find your way back to who you are."