Inspiring Tale of Resilience

I recently encountered 67-year-old Ms. Margaret See, a remarkable woman whose life journey has been anything but ordinary. Rejected by music teachers for decades, this polio survivor embraced her passion for music and found her voice, proving that it's never too late to pursue your dreams.

Performing with Passion

The scene unfolded in a bustling music centre within the Stadium MRT Station, where Ms. See expertly played the keyboard alongside her bandmates. As she performed a medley of songs—from the classic hits of Teresa Teng to popular Indonesian tunes—it became evident that her talent belied her relatively short history with the instrument; she only started playing five years ago!

Transforming Struggle into Strength

Despite facing rejection and ridicule due to her disability, Ms. See transformed her struggle into strength. Diagnosed with polio at the age of one, the disease left her reliant on callipers and eventually a wheelchair. Growing up in a society that stigmatized individuals with disabilities, she encountered numerous challenges, including discrimination when searching for employment. However, rather than allowing these obstacles to crush her spirit, she channeled her energy into music.

A Dream Realized

In 2019, a collaboration between the Disabled People’s Association and Faith Music Centre introduced her to a Band Mentorship Program, allowing her to finally pursue her dream of learning music. The thrill of performing alongside both able-bodied and disabled musicians in her band, Parabeatz, became a driving force in her life.

Paving the Way

Ms. See's journey to the keyboard was paved with frustrations. As a child, she was told time and again that playing the piano was impossible due to her inability to use the pedals. But her love for music never waned. Throughout her youth and adult life, she sought opportunities to learn, proving that passion fuels perseverance.

Adapting to Challenges

When the COVID-19 pandemic struck, Ms. See's lessons transitioned to online formats. Resourceful and determined, she practiced on a makeshift keyboard drawn on paper, never losing her momentum.

Bringing Joy to Others

Ms. See's mission goes beyond personal achievement; her performances at eldercare and disability homes evoke smiles and laughter from those who often feel forgotten. "I feel like the best thing I can do is to bring them some happiness," she said, recalling the touching moments that make her performances so rewarding.

Compassion in Action

In 2023, she even spearheaded a clothes donation drive, gathering 33 boxes of apparel for residents at the Mindsville@Napiri home. Her compassion shines brightly as she uses her platform to facilitate change in her community—serving not only as a musician but as a beacon of hope.

A Message of Resilience

Reflecting on her journey, Ms. See stated, "Life has its challenges, but these experiences help make us stronger. If you have the desire to do something, you can overcome obstacles, one step at a time."

Conclusion

Her story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to pursue your passions, and that resilience can turn adversity into an inspiring melody. As I left that rehearsal, I carried home not just newfound musical notes, but a profound example of how giving back can uplift both the giver and the receiver.