Tragic Loss Sparks Urgent Plea for Change

In a heartrending plea, the parents of 17-year-old Jessica Glasser, who tragically took her own life, are demanding that doctors be legally allowed to inform parents about their children's mental health struggles. Mary and David Glasser believe they could have provided vital support to their daughter if they had known what she shared with her GP.

The Silent Battle: Jessica's Story

Jessica, a bright teenager with aspirations of becoming a veterinarian, first confided in her doctor in December 2024 but had her follow-up appointment cancelled. It wasn't until after her untimely passing that her parents learned the full extent of her struggles.

"We are in pain every single day," Mrs. Glasser expressed. "She was our bright beautiful star." The couple believes better communication could have made a significant difference.

A Broken System: Call for Parental Involvement

Jessica faced bullying early on, a trauma that shadowed her throughout her teen years. In their grief, her parents argue that the system needs to change, particularly concerning parental engagement, even when children turn 18.

The Royal College of General Practitioners (RCGP) has stated that doctors must respect patient confidentiality, only sharing information if a mentally capable patient consents. However, Jessica’s parents argue that this law is inadequate and needs revision.

Demanding Accountability: The Need for Change

Frustration is palpable in the Glasser household. "This should never have happened," Mrs. Glasser insists. The family is angry that Jessica's missed appointment was not rescheduled, believing this lapse contributed to her tragic fate.

A Call on Politicians: Implement the Mental Health Strategy

The Glassers have also urged for the immediate implementation of the Department of Health's Mental Health Strategy launched in June 2021, which requires £1.2 billion to fully enact. Despite Northern Ireland's disproportionate rates of mental illness, funding levels have remained critically low.

"Our politicians need to fight harder for our young people. How is this strategy not fully implemented yet?" Mrs. Glasser added passionately.

A Personal Message to Other Parents

In their quest to help others avoid similar tragedies, Mrs. Glasser has a message for parents: "Never assume they are fine. Talking is key." She believes open communication is essential, and no parent should endure the pain they have faced.

The family’s story serves as a somber reminder of the urgency for better mental health care and the importance of parental involvement in their children's lives.

Support and Resources

For anyone struggling with similar issues, please reach out for support. Organizations exist to help you through these challenging times.