Tragic Loss: Nursing Influencer Hailey Okula Dies Due to Rare Complication After Childbirth

In a heart-wrenching turn of events, nursing influencer Hailey Okula has tragically passed away following a rare complication that arose after she gave birth to her first child, Crew. Her husband, Matthew Okula, shared the devastating news during an emotional interview with FOX 11 Los Angeles.

Hailey, also recognized on Instagram as Nurse Hailey, underwent a C-section delivery on Saturday. Shortly after, Matthew received shocking news from medical staff that they were performing CPR on his wife. "She went into cardiac arrest due to a very rare complication known as amniotic fluid embolism," he revealed, his voice filled with sorrow and disbelief.

Matthew, a firefighter with the Los Angeles Fire Department, expressed the profound pain of losing Hailey, stating, “She gave her life in the most noble way.” Hailey briefly held their newborn son, Crew, a moment that will forever be etched in Matthew's memory.

In a poignant tribute, Matthew has been sharing “raw, unedited” wedding videos on Hailey's Instagram, including their first dance and cherished moments with family. He emphasized the importance of showing the world the person Hailey was beyond her profession, captioning the videos with heartfelt reflections on her spirit and dedication.

Hailey founded RN New Grads in 2019, a platform aimed at guiding new nurses in launching their careers, a testament to her commitment to supporting others in her field. The couple had previously shared their difficult journey with fertility before welcoming Crew, making this loss even more poignant.

In a touching Instagram post, Matthew noted how passionately Hailey lived for her vocation while dreaming of being a present and loving mother. "She poured her soul into her career," he wrote, remembering her vision for their family.

What Is Amniotic Fluid Embolism (AFE)?

Amniotic fluid embolism (AFE) is a rare but serious condition that occurs when amniotic fluid enters a pregnant person’s bloodstream, sometimes during or after childbirth. According to Dr. Erin Higgins, an obstetrician-gynecologist, this reaction can trigger an anaphylactic response, leading to rapid onset of severe complications, including cardiopulmonary collapse.

Dr. Higgins explained that AFE typically results in low blood pressure, increased heart rate irregularities, and severe respiratory issues. It can lead to cardiac arrest, heavy bleeding, and even organ failure. Highlighting its rarity, she noted that AFE occurs in only 2 to 6 cases per 100,000 deliveries, with an unpredictable nature and no identifiable risk factors.

This condition can escalate in severity quickly and is challenging to diagnose beforehand. The mortality rate for AFE varies greatly, ranging from 10% to a staggering 90%. Dr. Higgins emphasized the critical role of immediate medical response, stating that rapid CPR and an organized emergency team can significantly impact outcomes.

As Matthew recounted his harrowing experience, he faced an unimaginable decision: "Do I go to the ICU with my wife, or do I stay with my newborn baby?" He expressed the anguish of choices no husband should have to make.

In the wake of this tragedy, Matthew remembered Hailey's boundless love for their child, saying she would have been an extraordinary mother. “Her spirit, courage, and love will live on in our son, and through everyone whose lives she touched,” he mourned, ensuring that her legacy would continue to inspire.

This heartbreaking story serves as a reminder of the fragility of life and the unpredictable challenges that can arise in the journey of motherhood.