Media Titan Barry Diller Opens Up About His Life

For decades, Barry Diller has been a powerhouse in the media industry, holding high-profile roles as chairman and CEO of major companies like Fox and Paramount Pictures. However, at 83, Diller is stepping into a new light as he reveals his identity as an openly gay man.

A Memoir That Celebrates Love and Truth

In an eye-opening excerpt from his forthcoming memoir, "Who Knew," published in New York Magazine, Diller reflects on his past and his deep connection with acclaimed designer Diane von Furstenberg, his wife since 2001. He describes their relationship as "the miracle of my life," navigating through societal confusion and endless speculation.

Diller candidly shares the struggles he faced while hiding his sexuality, confessing it led to a lingering anguish that prevented him from enjoying a fulfilling personal life. "I had discovered I could separate myself from anything painful or terrifying by just locking it away," he writes.

Teenage Years and the Cruelty of Secrecy

Diller recalls his teenage experiences of exploring his sexuality among the vibrant nightlife of West Hollywood, a time filled with both excitement and fear. Despite the whispers surrounding his personal life, he refrained from openly discussing his truth, living in a stilted existence that felt like exile.

A Unique Love Story

As he reflects on his life with von Furstenberg, Diller describes their bond as one of profound love and adventure. After a whirlwind romance that began in 1974, Diller famously gifted Diane 29 diamonds for her 29th birthday, humorously noting he wrapped them in a Band-Aid box. Their journey was not without hurdles, yet they reunited and married in a glamorous celebration in Manhattan.

"We have blended romantic love with deep respect, companionship, and countless adventures," Diller expresses, emphasizing a relationship that defies conventional labels.

Diane's Perspective on Love and Truth

Reaching out from Venice, von Furstenberg expressed her support for Diller's newfound openness, stating she didn't view his announcement as a coming out, but rather as an affirmation of their life together. "For me, the secret to honoring life and love is never to lie," she said, highlighting the authenticity of their connection.

Living Authentically Amidst the Spotlight

Despite living a very private existence, Diller acknowledges that he is liberated at last. He regrets the self-imposed rules he followed to protect his image; he now sees them as a lack of courage. The memoir promises to be not just a reflection of his life but also a declaration of personal freedom.

A Rich Tapestry of Love and Identity

Diller's story is not just about navigating fame and fortune; it's a rich tapestry woven with love, self-acceptance, and the acceptance of one’s truth. As he continues to shape the media landscape as the chairman of Expedia Group and IAC, he also paves the way for a more authentic conversation around love and identity.

In his memoir, he beautifully captures the essence of love: "I liked guys, but that was not a conflict with my love for Diane. It simply happened to both of us." The release of Diller's memoir on May 20 has already sent ripples throughout the cultural landscape, inviting readers to reflect on the nature of love and acceptance.