Parents Demand Access to Mental Health Records After Their Daughter's Tragic Death

In a heartbreaking plea for change, the parents of Jessica Glasser, a 17-year-old who took her own life, are urging lawmakers to allow parents better access to their children's mental health information. They believe that had they been informed about Jessica’s struggles, they could have provided crucial support.

Jessica first sought help in December 2024 but only revealed the severity of her issues to a GP. Tragically, her parents, Mary and David Glasser, learned of her struggles too late to intervene.

Confidentiality vs. Care: A Distressing Dilemma

In Northern Ireland, the law presumes individuals aged 16 and over can consent to their own medical treatment, complicating parental access to vital health information. Mary Glasser told BBC News NI, "Something needs to change regarding the age of disclosure."

Under current regulations, practitioners can only share medical information with family if the patient permits it, a situation that can leave parents feeling helpless.

The Pain of Loss: Remembering a Bright Future

Describing their daughter as a "bright beautiful star," the Glassers are devastated by their loss. Jessica, who dreamed of becoming a vet, kept her struggles hidden to spare her parents worry. "The earlier bullying stayed with her throughout the years," her father, David, revealed.

After a missed mental health appointment in January 2025, her parents are frustrated that no efforts were made to reschedule.

Calls for Action: A Mental Health Strategy Long Overdue

The Glasser family is also advocating for the urgent implementation of a long-awaited Mental Health Strategy in Northern Ireland, which has been stalled despite the pressing need. Published in June 2021, the strategy requires £1.2 billion to be fully realized.

A Department of Health spokesperson acknowledged the region's higher rates of mental ill-health but lamented lower funding levels compared to other areas.

A Message to Parents: Open Up the Conversation

Mary Glasser has a powerful message for other parents: "Never assume your child is okay. Communication is key. Jessica didn't always open up because she cared about our emotions. It’s vital to check in with your children, no matter what age."

In the wake of this tragedy, the Glasser family hopes to raise awareness and prevent future losses, urging everyone to advocate for better mental health resources for young people.