Allison Holker Responds to Backlash

In an emotional response to the backlash she faced for revealing personal details about her late husband, Stephen “tWitch” Boss, Allison Holker has taken to social media to clarify her intentions behind her forthcoming memoir.

“The only intention in writing this book is to share my own story alongside the life I lived with Stephen, to help others,” Holker stated in an Instagram story on Wednesday. She expressed her own confusion regarding her husband's battles and the tragic loss they suffered, saying, “I never really knew what happened, and even as I try to piece it all together, some questions will remain unanswered.”

Stephen Boss's Legacy

Stephen Boss, known for his upbeat presence as the DJ on “The Ellen DeGeneres Show” and as a contestant on “So You Think You Can Dance,” tragically passed away by suicide in December 2022 at the age of 40. Only days prior, he and Holker celebrated their ninth wedding anniversary.

Alarming Discoveries

In an exclusive interview with People magazine, Holker recounted a shocking discovery she made while preparing for her husband's funeral — finding a “cornucopia” of drugs, including mushrooms and various pills, among his belongings. “It was a really alarming moment; I had no idea there was so much hidden away,” she admitted. The revelation was a “triggering moment” for Holker, leading her to reflect on the hidden struggles that her husband endured.

Support from Family

Adding to the conversation, Boss's mother, Connie Boss Alexander, released a heartfelt statement on Instagram, expressing her devastation at the “misleading and hurtful claims” about her son. “As a mother, I cannot let these accusations go unanswered,” she asserted, vowing to protect her son's legacy.

Holker’s Memoir and Mental Health Advocacy

In her memoir, titled “This Far,” set to release on February 4, 2024, Holker aims to celebrate their love and family while addressing the deeper issues of mental health. “I hope to shed light on the complexities of our lives and help others who might see themselves or their loved ones in Stephen's story,” she wrote. All proceeds from the book will benefit her mental health foundation, “Move with Kindness,” which she created in his honor to foster awareness and prevent further tragedies.

A Shared Journey

Reflecting on their shared journey, Holker reminisces about their connection during Season 7 of “So You Think You Can Dance,” where they met and ultimately fell in love. The couple’s enduring bond was evident in their partnership both on and off the dance floor.

Final Thoughts on Mental Health Awareness

Holker's hopes through sharing her story are profound. “I want to ensure we don’t lose another husband, brother, father, or friend to suicide,” she concluded. Her heartfelt message resonates with many, reminding us all of the importance of mental health awareness and the complexities hidden beneath personal struggles.