Introduction

Miles Cikvar was a vibrant spirit, known for his contagious laughter, artistic talents, and profound kindness toward everyone he encountered. Tragically, at just 20 years old, he passed away at the St. George’s Square encampment in Guelph, alongside another individual, seemingly victims of drug poisoning.

Life and Community Impact

Having lived in various places including Shelburne, Montreal, and Toronto, Miles had only called Guelph home for a little over a year. His departure has resonated deeply within the community as family and friends reach out, sharing their memories of a young man whose life, albeit short, was filled with joy and compassion.

A Supportive Family

Raised by his great aunt, Wendy Sykes, since he was merely eight months old, Miles was always encouraged to embrace his identity and speak his truth. His unwavering self-acceptance was exemplified in his own words, “I’m not going to change, and this is who I am.” A proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community, Miles recognized his transgender identity at the tender age of 13. His ability to love unconditionally and his knack for making others feel accepted were hallmarks of his character.

A Life of Kindness and Art

Miles lived a life centered on kindness; he never hesitated to share food, clothing, or comfort with those in need. “I love you deeper than the ocean, higher than the sky, more than the universe,” were treasured words he often exchanged with Wendy, encapsulating the depth of his loving nature. An artist at heart, he had a passion for drawing, showcasing a talent that brought beauty to those around him.

His Quirks and Challenges

Notably, he had a voracious appetite – his great aunt humorously remarked that he could eat as if he were 'six foot five and 275 pounds,' relishing Kraft dinner, ramen, and a variety of fruits and vegetables. Miles was a social butterfly, always eager to meet new people and foster connections. His vibrant energy shone through even during his struggles, including his battles with drug use and the challenges of accessing necessary resources.

Friendships and Relationships

A significant figure in his community, he forged meaningful bonds, including one with Sarah George, a local queer parent. Their friendship blossomed when Miles stayed at George’s home for a month, where he would help care for her child and forge lasting memories filled with laughter and companionship. His efforts to stay connected, even outside of George's home, showcased his deep need for relationships, despite his personal challenges.

Struggles with Support Systems

Miles sought help for his substance use at a local shelter, but faced an uphill battle in accessing adequate support. Friends and family have expressed frustrations with the systemic barriers that complicated his rehabilitation. “Every time he needed supports and he was willing to get them, they weren't readily available,” George lamented. The broader issue of how society views those with mental health struggles and substance use is a conversation that continues to echo in the wake of his passing.

Community Memorial

In response to the tragedy, George and Cikvar’s family convened at St. George’s Square to honor his memory, where countless individuals who knew him gathered to share their grief and tributes. Despite the storms that damaged their memorial items, a mystical occurrence transpired when the candles miraculously reignited upon returning home, a hopeful sign of Miles’s enduring spirit.

Legacy and Impact

As the community mourns the loss of Miles Cikvar, his legacy of love, kindness, and resilience will undoubtedly continue to inspire those who knew him. His story amplifies the urgent need for compassion and support for individuals struggling with mental health and addiction, and serves as a stark reminder of the reality many face in seeking help.